Japan is a country with rich traditions and deeply rooted customs, which are considered important in Japanese culture, and violating them may be perceived as rude or even offensive. To help you avoid awkward situations, we’ve put together a list of things you definitely should not do in Japan.
- Improper Use of Japanese Chopsticks
Failing to follow how to use chopsticks correctly can be perceived as very rude. Therefore, never stick chopsticks into your food, as this act resembles funeral rituals. Also, avoid using chopsticks as a pointer or waving them in the air. The proper technique involves gently gripping and lifting the food. When not in use, place your chopsticks on a special stand or lay them across your bowl.
- Not Removing Your Shoes
In Japan, it is important to take off your shoes when entering stores, certain restaurants, and other indoor spaces. Many places will provide indoor slippers. Observing this custom shows respect for cleanliness and local traditions.
- Blowing Your Nose in Public
This is considered inappropriate in Japan. If you need to blow your nose, you should always go to a place like the restroom. On the other hand, slurping and making noise while eating, which is considered impolite in other cultures, is a common practice in Japan and is often seen as a desirable expression of appreciation for the meal.
- Handshake
A handshake is not a common form of greeting in Japan—Japanese people bow when greeting one another. The depth of the bow indicates the level of respect towards the other person. Another sign of respect is avoiding direct eye contact.
- Physical Contact
Physical contact, such as hugging or patting on the back, is not as common in Japan. Japanese people appreciate a subtle nod or bow more. Maintaining personal space is very important to them.
- Inappropriate Gifts and Ways of Giving
In Japan, there are certain rules for gift-giving, such as avoiding gifts in sets of four (since the number four is considered unlucky in Japanese culture). When presenting a gift or a business card, it is important to use both hands to show respect to the recipient.
It is also crucial for gifts to be properly wrapped. Japanese people often use furoshiki—a traditional cloth that can easily adapt to any shape of gift.
- Expressions of Strong Emotions
Japanese society views expressions of strong emotions as a sign of weakness. Although Japanese people are tolerant towards tourists, it is advisable to avoid excessive displays of affection in public. Holding hands or a brief kiss are generally tolerated, but restraint is preferred.
- Inappropriate Behavior When Visiting Temples or Shrines
When visiting temples and shrines, it is important to show respect for the sacred space. This primarily includes removing your shoes and maintaining silence. If you wish to pray, follow these steps: bow slightly, pull the bell rope (if available), drop a coin into the offering box, bow deeply twice, and clap your hands twice. Only after these actions should you pray quietly and briefly while standing.
- Not Showering Before Entering an Onsen
Japanese hot springs, known as onsen, are a quintessential Japanese tradition. Before bathing in them, you must always shower first. For Japanese people, the hot water is primarily for relaxation, not for washing, and entering the bath without prior washing is considered barbaric. It’s also important to know that in most onsen, wearing swimsuits is not allowed. Therefore, the pools are often designated for a single gender.
These rules and customs are a demonstration of respect and consideration, which are highly valued in Japanese society. By adhering to them, you will not only show respect for Japanese culture but also avoid faux pas and other inconveniences.